The transition from cot to bed is a significant milestone for both you and your little one. It’s a moment filled with excitement, but it can also feel daunting as you navigate the changes ahead. Rest assured, with a thoughtful approach and a touch of preparation, this change can become a calm experience. Today, we’re delighted to share the expertise of Prudence Beeby - founder of A Mother’s Touch and a Norland Nanny - whose insights will help you embrace this next step with confidence.
Recognising the Signs That Your Child Is Ready To Transition from Cot to Bed
Every child is different, but most transition from their cot to a bed between the ages of 18 months and 3 years. Waiting until closer to 3 can often make the process smoother, as your child will have a greater understanding of what’s happening. However, readiness isn’t solely determined by age – there are other signs to look out for.
If your little one has started climbing out of their cot frequently, it may no longer be a safe sleeping space. That said, a one-off attempt doesn’t necessarily mean they’re ready to make the move. Consider measures like lowering the cot mattress to its lowest setting or using a zip-up sleeping bag to discourage climbing. Fully toilet-trained children are often better equipped for the transition, as they’ll need to get in and out of bed independently. Disrupted sleep caused by bumping into cot sides can also indicate that your child might benefit from the extra space a bed provides.
Preparing for the Cot to Bed Transition
Preparation is key to making the move to a bed feel exciting and natural. Begin by choosing the right bed for your child – whether it’s a cot bed, toddler-sized bed, floor bed, or a standard single. Think about what will make your little one feel comfortable and secure, while also considering the practicality of your choice for the years ahead.
A few weeks before the transition, gently introduce the idea of moving to a big bed in a fun and engaging way. Reading books about the change can help your child understand what’s coming and feel excited about this milestone. According to NHS UK guidelines, pillows and duvets should only be introduced for children over 12 months to ensure safe sleep. If your child has reached this stage, you can begin making subtle adjustments by adding a pillow and duvet to their cot before transitioning to a bed. This gradual change helps them get used to a new sleep setup while keeping safety a top priority. For this step, Coco & Wolf’s Liberty print children's bedding is a wonderful choice - luxuriously soft and made from naturally temperature-regulating Tana Lawn cotton, it adds a sense of comfort and beauty to their sleep space.
It’s also important to ensure your child’s room is a safe, calming haven. Double-check that all medication, blind cords, and other potential hazards are securely out of reach, and keep windows locked or fitted with safety latches. Create an environment that feels serene by keeping toys simple and quiet – soft toys, sensory items, puzzles, and books can help make the space feel inviting and peaceful.
Helping Your Child Settle In
Once the big day arrives, take small steps to ease the transition. Place the new bed in the same position as the cot to maintain a sense of familiarity, which can help your child feel safe and secure. Spending time together in their room is also a great way to build positive associations with their new bed. Let them play, explore, and snuggle in the space so it becomes a natural part of their daily routine.
If your child still naps during the day, encourage them to try their afternoon nap in their new bed. Maintaining consistency in their bedtime routine is vital during this period. Stick to the rituals that have always worked for your family, whether that’s a soothing bath, reading their favourite story, or singing a bedtime lullaby. Familiarity will help your little one feel reassured and confident as they adjust to this change.
Staying Calm and Consistent
It’s normal for children to test boundaries or feel unsettled in the early days of sleeping in a bed. If your child wakes up or gets out of bed, remain calm and consistent in your response. Gently remind them that it’s bedtime, tuck them back in, and keep interactions brief. Over time, this approach will help them understand the new boundaries, making the transition smoother for everyone.
As your child grows accustomed to their new bed, celebrate the progress they make. This milestone is as much about creating lasting memories as it is about practicality. Treating them to beautiful, high-quality children's bedding, like Coco & Wolf’s Liberty print designs, can make their bed feel like a special, magical space they’ll love for years to come.
A Milestone Worth Celebrating
Transitioning from cot to bed is a big step – for both you and your child. It marks a moment of independence and growth that deserves to be celebrated. With a calm and thoughtful approach, you can help your little one embrace this change with ease and excitement.
By pairing your preparations with the luxury and comfort of Coco & Wolf bedding, you’ll create a bedroom that is not only safe and practical but also filled with beauty and charm. As your little one drifts off to sleep in their new bed, you’ll be reminded that every milestone, no matter how big or small, is another step in their unique and wonderful journey.
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